"You can waste a lot of time beating yourself up for what you want, but the body wants what the body wants. I don’t know why we think we’re more intelligent than our bodies, our bodies tell us when we need to go to the toilet, when we’re hungry, when we need to sleep. Let the body be in charge. If your body desires a certain type of person, go for that person. And at some point, you may become bored of that type, but because you’ve embraced it, you haven’t denied it, you’ve gone for it! You’ve got it, and at that point, change can occur if it needs to, maybe it doesn’t need to. You could fall in love with one of these sickly-looking people. Go with what you feel, that’s the only advice I would have to give you. Go full into it. Could I waste a lot of time being like, “Oh, but I shouldn’t”? Just go for it. Have them all. And know that they want you, that’s the key."
Simon Amstell, the man who says things like this, gave me some dating advice. Outtake from here.